Rebuild Connection. Heal Distance.
But now it feels like your partner doesn’t even know you anymore and you’re not sure if they really want to. Evenings are filled with practical conversation about chores, kids etc. Once that’s over, you hide in your phone scrolling for entertainment instead of facing the wall between you two.
It feels like you’re disconnected from your partner more than you are connected. The passion, excitement and hope for the future that you once felt have turned into monotony, bickering, and discontent.
But nothing works. You do what you think will make your partner happy and it backfires. In the process, you’ve lost sight of what makes you feel good. You’re tired of trying and failing.
You miss feeling attractive. You and your partner used to put in effort to keep eachother. Now, your relationship is in a lazy phase. And with that, the spark has gone out. Part of you just feels like something is missing. The magic is missing, the fun is missing, the excitement is just not there.
How good would it feel to go through the day free of resentment? How different would your day go if it was filled with spontaneous affection and kindness. This is possible for you. Healing your relationship will take work and a new skill set. But, it can happen. That’s why I am here. To help you learn the missing tools to take your relationship from surviving into thriving.
I’m a couples therapist and I help amazing people like you enjoy soul-nourishing love that lasts.
If you could fix your relationship problems on your own, you would have done it already.
Many couples come to me after spending years suffering needlessly in their relationship or even worse ending a relationship that has the potential to be great because they are afraid to ask for help or they have had unsuccessful therapy attempts in the past.
With more than 10 years experience as a couples therapist I bring both a compassionate environment and expert practice.